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On Friday, March 23,Craigslist decided to shutter its personals section. Anti-trafficking advocates applaud the bill for advancing the fight of curbing Craiglist men looking for men nefarious practices.

Men wanting to have sex with other Craiglist men looking for men are fucking incensed. Cardboard cutout glory holes and plastic rim seats.

Pic collectors and catfishes. Putrid watersports and fetid scat play. The perception is that all the dregs of society consort there, looking to act out on their deviant fantasies with other men. Before I had completely come to terms with my sexuality, I experienced my first few sexual encounters thanks to the anonymity that the pic-driven profiles of the gay hookup apps frown upon.

A constellation of men cruised the sparsely designed site for similar reasons. Men with burner email accounts. Men taking body pics in toothpaste speckled mirrors. Men taking low angled dick pics attached to ads with embellished measurements. Men who would never step out publically or speak loudly enough to satiate their true desires. Disappointment after being flaked on by a set of cold feet after getting ready or guilt as I cancel a confirmed appointment when a more appeasing dick pic hits my inbox.

Chic penthouses in West Hollywood and dilapidated apartments in East Hollywood. I layed in their beds and looked at the variations of their lives.

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The gleam of an iPhone tucked away behind a Craiglist men looking for men of books pointed directly towards our coitus. He apologized profusely and his erection deflated as he showed himself deleting the video from his Camera Roll followed by his Recently Deleted folder. I promised myself I would desert the site for good. Craiglist men looking for men the most part.

Assumptions say you start out there, then graduate towards real scenes, but the smartest of us knew that there was always prime dick there that would never show pores on a hookup app or cast a shadow in any bar with a rainbow flag hanging above it. Christian zealots were interested in meeting up in public areas to play around. The site consisted of crass dishonesty, but so Craiglist men looking for men everything else in life.

I assume there will be an inundation of blank profiles and torso pics begging for attention in the popular apps. As well-intentioned as the bill is, it will only succeed in momentarily sending these types back into the shadows. The site had become a bastion of experimentation. A string of blue and purple hyperlinks directing you to your ultimate pleasures. Where men of different races, cultures, and backgrounds could meet up at the intersection of desperation and loneliness.

A short-term cure to a long-term curiosity. Before I acted out on my desires, it seemed likely that I would live a life inside of the tormented closet. I had no other way towards making these connections. For most people, the passage of this bill means a step in the right direction, an invasion of free speech, a disruption towards consenting sex workers, or simply, and ambivalent shrug.

But for the men seeking men in this country, it marks the end of an era. A new Thought Catalog series exploring our connection to each other, our food, and where it comes from.

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sites” you Craiglist men looking for men find a bunch of websites that satisfy what you're looking for. Men and women looking to hook-up via Craigslist are in for a disappointment after the website closed their personals section. Michael, 34, a straight man who lives in Midtown Manhattan and who has been using the Casual Encounters board on Craigslist for five years.

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