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Never dating again after divorce

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Those questions can be entertaining, yet they can also be a cause of stress. Not wanting to do any of those things is perfectly okay. Yes, even the not wanting to date after a divorce. Let me say Never dating again after divorce there is absolutely nothing wrong with those who are ready to get right back on that horse again. After my divorce, I was very quick to try and date. I felt unlovable and unwanted and I just wondered if anyone could and would ever Never dating again after divorce me again.

My self-esteem was at an all-time low. My life had once consisted of a husband and our children. That was my focus and my heart and soul went into all aspects of family. When one part of the family equation was gone, my focus turned to my children and for the first time in years, to myself. I could find myself again and find out whom I was as a person. As a separate entity from the husband-wife creation, I had become. I had lost my own individuality in my marriage and something I discovered early on during the divorce was that I had to relearn how to be…me.

There was absolutely nothing wrong with the guys. As a matter of fact, they were great! They were kind, they were attentive and sweet. They carried the traits of someone one would want to spend more time with. Yet, here I was with a complete aversion to seeing them again and getting to know them better on more than a friendship level. Over time I realized I had become a strong and independent mother and divorced woman.

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Some of us might wait until the kids are grown and out of the house before we want to give that a go. And some of us may decide the single life Never dating again after divorce all we want and we may never go out and search for someone. Every single one of those options is okay! I work from home and have been dabbling in the world of narration and voice Never dating again after divorce. Divorced 2 years cannot even imagine dating. I love doing what I want, when I want, how I want.

I was committed for 30 years as a wife, friend, lover and in the end hated it.

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I took an amazing amount of abuse in hindsight and regret that I did. Being happy with myself for myself by myself is my relationship now. Together close to 25yrs, married for 15 of them.

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Never dating again after divorce horrendous feelings and emotions we got through it. She had always been rather independent. I talk or communicate with her many times a week. We go out for dinner with the kids together occasionally, celebrate Christmas etc… I had a bit of a fling after the divorce with an old gal friend, but no more and I want to be a single guy for a loooooong long time now.

Happy as can be. If the right person comes along again someday, well into the future…then maybe. Now, what should I have to eat tonight? I still feel the same Never dating again after divorce when I wrote that article almost a year ago.

And so far, no one has come along that makes me feel any different!

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During this time I had a bit of interest in dating but that diminished after a few months and I broke it off with the man I was Never dating again after divorce. Right now I have absolutely no interest in dating, sure I sometimes miss things couples do BUT I much prefer keeping my focus on my kids, improving myself and achieving my goals and dreams.

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There are some women who can't Never dating again after divorce to date after divorce. For me, getting to know myself again and focusing on my children and Never dating again after divorce the single life is all we want and we may never go out and search for someone.

This Is What It's Really Like To Date After Divorce through a divorce and really, really let yourself be vulnerable and open to finding love again. explain that sits on my shoulder and reminds me it's never worked out with anyone thus far.

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